[Do You Do This?] STOP Waiting For Him To Call!

Hello lovely! Luba here,


Listen, I know how crappy it feels when a man is sending mixed signals (I’ll actually discuss that in tomorrow’s email)


It just breaks my heart when I hear from my incredible ladies that their man makes them feel like they are the ones doing something wrong.


Obviously the first rule is to never blame yourself.


Look, when a man is not stepping up for you, it just means that he isn’t that interested.


It’s a sad truth – but not one you should feel sorry about.


If he’s only coming around for sex but otherwise just isn’t putting in the effort to make you feel unique, then it betrays his own lack of maturity.


Here’s how I normally deal with this:


Do Unto Others As You Would Have Them Do Unto You


Listen well my dear; people will treat you the way you allow them to treat you.


You attract what you put out into the world, and you can bet your cute bum that you only get what you feel you deserve.


If you want a man to truly commit to you, then you have to be what you wish to attract!


What does that mean?


Well, for starters, if you want him to text you often, you need to text him at the frequency you wished to be communicated with.


I’m not talking about being a nag – don’t abuse of this.


What I meant to say is, and I know this from experience, that any man loves to know you are thinking of him.


What man doesn’t want to receive a cute “Hello youu, have a great day!” text from his woman at 2pm while he’s having a hard day at the office.


You know exactly how that feels, but by giving it to him, you are enticing him to respond in kind.


Be proactive in your relationship – do not sit around waiting for him to call you and then be disappointed that you aren’t feeling the love you should feel.


It breaks my heart to know that you are hurting – don’t fall into that trap!


Establish the rhythm of communication in your relationship so that he can step up in kind and before you know it, you’ll be receiving adorable texts and fun phone calls from him at random times throughout the week.


Be sure to check out tomorrow’s email, because as promised, I’ll go into the nitty gritty dirty truth about mixed signals, games and lies he may be putting you through, and what to do to avoid it.


Talk tomorrow lovely!